~:[CH10 - Day 204]:~ In Us They Live
I woke up early for practice, ventured over to a meeting with a friend, then raced back to this celebration of life for someone who did so much for the community, Mr. Jim Edwards. They often say, you don't know how rich you really are until your funeral and in this case, however, in this case, I think most knew just how loved he was. As I listened to the speeches and reflected on my time with him, I saw that much of what I do matched up with things he would do when coaching and working with athletes. He was an amazing leader, mentor, father, grandfather and most importantly, an incredible person. Many of us have suffered through the loss of someone important to us during the pandemic and the challenge of trying to navigate through the emotions have been quite difficult. However, by changing our perspective, it may definitely help us in coping with all that is going on. In us, they live. In us, these influential individuals continue to live as they have impacted the way we live. From the way we treat people to the accomplishments we reached because of them, important individuals in our lives become part of us in some way. As his grandson and my former athlete said, there are many qualities that he now possesses that came from his papa. For all of us, we carry a part of all those people with us, but that also means we are responsible to carry their legacy. We don't have to become them, but yet, we must remember that in order for their legacy to live on, we must pass on the many positive lessons we learned to the future generations. It was great to see so many people I haven't been able to see, but even greater to remind myself that the life I live is not just my own, but also the lives of all those who are my mentors and who have guided me to become the person I am today. While they do not make the decisions for me, there is no doubt that I think about them as I make my decisions day in and day out. In us, they live and thus as I live, it will always be us. It will always be us because although I am making the decision, it was influenced by those who taught me so much. It will always be us because the person I am today would be different without that mentor that has molded me. It will always be us, because in the end, as important as independence and freedom may seem, having someone by your side, physically or spiritually is more important than anything in the world. Jim Edwards was a special man who truly exemplified the person many of us strive to be and as we celebrated his life, we weren't saying goodbye, but rather began the process of planting to the seeds to keep his legacy going on forever.