~:[CH13 - Day 56]:~ The Highest Expectations
I'm somewhere in between a realists and idealist. I often have to deal with students who are setting goals and trying to attain something and try my best to have them have high expections within reason. Having high expectations is definitely something that is key if you want to accomplish big things, but I also always encourage those chasing those dreams to focus on the steps towards getting there. You don't immediately become the CEO of a company or leap into the NBA (in most cases). The higher you set these expectations, the more painful it will be when you fall, but that is part of the process. This stage [CIF Finals] was a place my brother always hoped to be one day. As he attended CIF championship games and even NCAA tournament and NBA playoff games, I think it fueled his desire to reach this pinnacle. He always demands the most from this athletes. I think it started with his SEYO coach, Coach Joe who pushed the limits of the team. He asked for their dedication and effort and in turn, that team was one of the most dominant teams I've ever seen. My brother sticks to a stringent timeline, has his routines like clockwork, and understands that in order to reach that level, every one of them needed to sacrifice. For the athletes, it was their lunch time to watch film and their free time to practice and for him it was hours of planning, preparing and scouting. His mind is always thinking about what he can do to motivate them, what he can do to get the most out of his team, and he is always scheme plays to try to give them an edge here or there. Most of all, I think, that while he pushes them, he also believe in them and truly knows what they are capable of, even before they do. I remember that when he first started coaching, there was an article about him, "Little Coach has a Big Heart" or something along those lines. Yes, he may be the smallest on the court, but it doesn't mean he ever goes unnoticed, as opponents recognize the impact of the coaching staff on the team. Teams require players who are talented and will improve that talent by working hard, but having a coaching who knows the Xs and Os, who can inspire when they are discouraged, and who can really push a team over the top is key. This season, more than any, I know that it took a lot out of the team emotionally, but together, they continued to believe what they were capable of and never lowered their expectations of what they could accomplish. I am proud of what the team accomplished, however, as I thought it all over in my mind, I am even more proud of my brother who has dedicated so much of his life to this sport and finally secure something he's worked so hard for. No matter the team he has, I am always confident that they'll play to or beyond their potential because all the work he puts in. I've learned so much from my brother over the years. From coaching to teaching to life, I'm glad that I could look up to someone who always chased after those higher dreams and goals, showing me that we should not fear having high expectations. We should always believe that we can, as long as we're willing to put the time and effort into doing so. I am sure that he passed this along to his athletes and one of the big reasons why they reached this long sought after goal. I hope that similarly, we can all believe in ourselves and no matter what disadvantage we have when facing our challenges, we can will our way to reach those expectations that we set out for. Set your goals high, believe in what you can accomplish, but also be sure to do the work to get there. I wish you all way on your journey towards your dreams.