Monday, December 31, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 365]:~ And Just Like That ...

~:[CH7 - Day 365]:~ And Just Like That ...
Sadly, I had a lot of work to do today. Since I am leaving soon, I had to finish everything today along with the cooking and errands to prep for the dinner later on. Deadlines are the worst, but they do keep you on top of your game and that I was. I was efficient and as the dinner approached, I was finishing up with my work. Before the ball dropped, I was done. It could have easily been a moment where I complained about having to do the work, but I tried my best to bounce back and forth, as I worked and talked to get it all completed. Life is too short to complain about all we have to do or all that we don't have, rather, we need to find a way to balance what we have to do, with the opportunities that lay before us. Not everything is going to go well in life and if you sulk day after day, you're only going to live a miserable life and drive others away from you. Enjoy what you have and think not about what you don't because just like that, the day, the week, the month, the year, the life will reach its end. In life, there are definitely things we cannot control, but we can control how we react to them. Moments can be devastating, but if we let those moments break us, it becomes even more so. As I close out my 2018, I am so grateful for all the friends I made, all the ones I kept in contact with, the family that I have been able to love and all that I've been able to do. It hasn't been perfect, but that's part of the process of life. Keep moving forward and you'll find yourself much further along and finding a lot more opportunities in the process. Tomorrow is no different than today and while many will begin the year with resolutions, it's just another day. It's just another day that we can chose to live and move forward or get dragged down by what life has in store for us. I have a pile of deadlines waiting for me, but as I move into 2019, I'm not going to let myself ever stop moving forward. As while resolutions are meant to be broken, we must be resolute in our promise to ourselves to keep moving forward because just like that we'll find ourselves at the end of another year that can be wonderful or not. Let's all aim for wonderful. Happy New Year!

Sunday, December 30, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 364]:~ Down Memory Lane

~:[CH7 - Day 364]:~ Down Memory Lane
As I watched the ball roll down the lane, I thought of how similar bowling is to life. You spend a year of your life traveling down a particular path, trying to avoid the gutters. When you're younger, you have the bumpers to keep you from failing, but as you get older, you move past that and try your best to keep things focused on your goal. Some of us speed down that path, while others kind of just make it. We all chose what resources we use, but sometimes it's limited to the strengths we have. Ultimately, we try to reach our goal and knock down all the head pins and sometimes when we do everything write, we don't quite get everything we had hoped for, that dreaded ten pin. Regardless, whether we gutter or not, we are all successful. We are out there trying do something and even if we fail, we can adjust and take another shot at it. In bowling, you get ten tries, in life, those tries can be limitless. Even if you slip and fall, if you can get past those memories, you can allow yourself the success you seek. It's been a year with many great memories and others that I can learn from. I hope that I can fix those mistakes I made along the way so that I can keep aiming at the goals I have in front of me. On a day where I was lucky enough to catch up with a number of people, I also remembered so many memory as my ball rolled down memory lane. 

Saturday, December 29, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 363]:~ Food = Memories

~:[CH7 - Day 363]:~ Food = Memories
Today I had a date with my favorite in the whole world - food. After a day where I did more loads of laundry in a day than most people do in a month, it was nice to get out of the house, especially because I wasn't too confident in the progress I was making. I finally saw the outdoors, but unfortunately, I never saw daylight today. As from sunrise to sunset, I was working to get ready for the new year. It's an annual tradition where I clean like no other and throw out more trash than one could ever imagine. It's my world. I don't know how this happens ever year, but it does. As grueling as the day was, it was the food and company that would turn the day around. It's great to be around those people who are easy to talk to, who you can relate to and even if things aren't the best, they keep the vibe positive. Although it was a bit loud, we were able to load up on some good food, while reminiscing and catching up on the new. With some people, it feels like you never skip a beat and you pick up just where you left off and I was glad that it was the case tonight. I guess there are a lot of gaps that never really get filled when you're apart for so long, but with some people, it matters not, as what matters is that you're there making more memories. I ate a little too much for my liking, but went home satisfied and happy about reconnecting. As I headed back home, I got back to the laundry, as I kept cleaning, as slowly progress was made. Maybe it was just that all my hard work was finally paying off or possibly is that the good food made good memories that made the challenge a lot easier to handle. Even after all the labor of the day, I was content, as my stomach was filled, almost as much as my heart was. I guess that's what good food and great people can do to you.

Friday, December 28, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 362]:~ The Sky is Falling

~:[CH7 - Day 362]:~ The Sky is Falling
Yes, that is right folks, I was home for once. I had an early lunch with an alum, as I was able to reminisce about the past and to catch up on what was going on in the world. It's not easy keeping up with so many alumni, but sometimes, it's nice to hear the well-connected ones being able to keep you up to date on all that is going on. To hear about those who are getting married, getting jobs or just growing old, it fills my heart with joy to hear that they are all living life. I ventured out to catch up with the Pokemon crews as I spent a day raiding, meeting people along the way and just enjoying the fact that I was back home even as the sky was falling down on my above. Yes, it was true, the tree kept raining down on us. I guess it was a bird trying to get me to move, yet, I did not give way. I stood my ground, because I was home. I had a laundry list of things to do (including my laundry), but I didn't allow that to kill my mood. I finished up my recommendation letters, prepared for my next working adventure (which will also have some playtime), and caught the Los Angeles rivalry game sans Lebron. It felt relaxing and it felt nice as while I was doing work, I was doing it from the comforts of my own home - calls and reservations, finalizing logistics, and a little bit of research. As while I was just about to call it an end to a successful night, an alumni sends me a message just to remind me about how big of a part cross country was in her life and since then, I couldn't help but smile. Even if the sky was falling today, the final message of the day would have made it all right. As coaches and teachers, there is a lot of time put into the job and people thing that we don't get paid enough for what we do, but there is a lot more ways than you can become rich. The paycheck you receive can add dollars to your bank account, but the only thing that's going to matter when the sky is falling and the world is about to end, can't be bought. Today I was reminded of that again and inspired for all that is ahead.\, no matter how long that may be. 

Thursday, December 27, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 361]:~ Not Quite Thawed

~:[CH7 - Day 361]:~ Not Quite Thawed 
I didn't really want to go outside today. I checked out of my hotel and braved the winter sans all my layers with just enough clothing to stay warm, but not too much that I was uncomfortable on the flight home. I survived. I ran down the block to a Vietnamese restaurant to grab some lackluster pho, then back to the hotel and worked on a video while waiting for my shuttle. I didn't add to my accomplishments while I was there, but anyone else from Los Angeles who would have been with me, probably would have done the same. The weather may not have been cold for some, but an Angelino ain't built for that type of weather. I ventured home annoyed by two little boys who reeked havoc on the plane and left a mess for the crew to cleanup. Due to a delay, I had to swiftly walk to my connection, unknowingly having to go through security again and US customs in Vancouver. It was strange to be welcomed into the US while still in Canada, but I guess that's how they do it. My second flight was a lot more peaceful aside from a girl who loudly confessed her love to her boyfriends over Facetime while drunk without headphones. I learned a little too much about these two and we were lucky enough to hear more as our plane was delayed because of our previous delay, as we awaited baggage to clear customs. As I arrived home, sans the layers I had in Edmonton, I couldn't thaw as I was met with Los Angeles cold (40s) as I headed home. Despite all the craziness and still be frozen, my heart and soul were warmed, because I was safely home. There are so many things to complain and vent about, but if we allow them to be apart of our day, we become cold to the world around us. Even when we are surrounded by this cold, it is up to us whether we warm up or not. Today, I let the cold get to me a bit, but by days end, I found the warmth I was searching for all along, even if the SoCal air didn't provide it for me. 

Wednesday, December 26, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 360]:~ Frozen in Time

~:[CH7 - Day 360]:~ Frozen in Time
Today I felt what death must feel like as the temperatures in Edmonton dropped to 1ºF as I wandered around the city. I ended up walking about six miles in temperatures below 10ºF, surprising myself that I lasted that long. It was quite gorgeous to be in such a snow covered city in such extreme temperatures, as while I've been to Boston and New York, this definitely had a different feel. I wandered through the University of Alberta and stopped to warm up with a bowl of pho. I needed time to thaw in the hotel and ventured back out. Luckily I did, as I saw the gorgeous legislature building at night, as the whole area was lit for the holidays. I did my best to grab dinner and things I would need to spend the rest of the night indoors. This was definitely a lot tougher than I had imagined, but in the end, I completed what I wanted to do. As I went back through my camera roll, I didn't realize how incredible my shot of the legislature building was, as it truly was a moment frozen in time. While I will be glad to head home, at least there will be snapshots reminded me of all these incredible views and the not as incredible temperatures of this area. It truly was nice to witness a white holiday, as while it's great to be in the warm California sun during the holiday, there's just something about being here that makes it even more festive. 

Tuesday, December 25, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 359]:~ All Wrapped Up

~:[CH7 - Day 359]:~ All Wrapped Up
This year's Christmas Day was going to be a little bit different. Most of the time we sat around and watched Jordan rip the wrapping paper off the gifts, paying more attention to the wrapping paper than the gifts themselves. We figured that in the future we could just give him wrapping paper and that he would be fine. As the time passed, I thought that I would just end up canceling my trip if this process took too long, but it ended just on time as I jetted out of the house and made it to my flight with time to spare. A little backstory to the flight is that I thought it was scheduled on the 26th, but somehow, I booked it on the 25th. Global Entry seems to be a blessing as I flew through security and even got upgraded to the emergency exit aisle. It would be my first white Christmas and while I was completely frozen when wandering around the city at night, it was quite the experience and wish I was even more wrapped up like the gifts earlier in the day. Realizing it was Christmas Day, I grabbed dinner in the hotel before calling it a wrap. 

Monday, December 24, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 358]:~ Happy Holidays

~:[CH7 - Day 358]:~ Happy Holidays
As we round out another wonderful year, I want to take the time to thank you all for being a part of my life. There are a lot of great things in this world, but none is greater than the love of family and friends. We often get so caught up in working so hard, but we can forget that we work hard so we can share these special moments together. It's days like these that remind us that there is nothing more important than those loved ones who continue to be around. I am grateful for them and for all of you. It definitely was a Blessed day as I got to celebrate Jordan's first Christmas along with the normal joys of being with family. I know that in a given year, all will never be perfect, but all those imperfections can be helped by love. Love one another with all your heart and all of your soul and leave not an ounce of love to waste. In a time where it seems as there is a rocky road ahead, it will be the love of friends and family that make it all the better. Thank you again for making my life as amazing as it is and I wish nothing but the best for you and your families. Happy holidays to you all!

Sunday, December 23, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 357]:~ The Search for Magic

~:[CH7 - Day 357]:~ The Search for Magic
Santa photo bombed out picture and there was a little bit of bah humbug in him today. I never knew he was a Cardinals fan and no, I'm not a Rams fan either, but when we discussed trying to catch one more came in the season and also seeing some UC-alum, it ended up that the closest game would be in Arizona, so we decided, let's do it! Eight weeks removed from the last game we all ran into each other, we actually did it. We drove out early in the morning to Arizona and ventured through a beautiful stadium and caught a game at a great value at that! There were Rams fans around, but I was pretty impressed at how good of a turnout they had despite their miserable season (of course, they did beat my team this year). I also enjoy how supportive they were for one of their players, Fitzgerald who declared that he would retire as a Cardinal and his loyalty to them was seen through their loyalty to him as they cheered "Larry, Larry" and the like. Would his 15th season be his last? Who knows, but if it is, they would have sent him off with a memorable one, including a touchdown pass on a trick play. Regardless, this long one day trek for a football game was a little crazy, but was worth every moment we spent together. I was a little worried on how it would all turnout, but in the end, it was amazing. As while the magic of Christmas was not found in Santa today, it was found in the ability to take another opportunity presented and make it into another unforgettable memory. Most people would not take on this journey, yet most don't believe in magic either. Little do they know that it's all too real; just ask Santa. 

Saturday, December 22, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 356]:~ Frame It

~:[CH7 - Day 356]:~ Frame It
It's too bad that I wasn't able to get a picture of him performing, but regardless, his banner was quite nice too. After a morning of getting work done, I was able to enjoy the beautiful sounds of Yiruma. My body was not happy with me as sickness reigned supreme, but there was something about him that made it all go away, even if it was just for those moments at Dolby. His strokes across the key were like butter as he quickly moved from key to key and his commentary between pieces was truly classic. One of the things he mentioned was about taking the time to frame the memories in our lives and keep it for ourselves or to share with others. Truly the opportunities we find in life are moments to be framed and displayed, much like was the case this evening. The frames we store within our minds should be kept near and dear and truly remain as moments that we will treasure forever. Framing something often means it becomes a special memory as typically it is something to be put on display. Let's be sure to frame these wonderful moments in our lives and treasure them forever. 

Friday, December 21, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 355]:~ The Perfect Break

~:[CH7 - Day 355]:~ The Perfect Break
Today was the final day. I wasn't feeling well by day's end, but part of me felt good knowing that tomorrow I would be able to relax and enjoy without very many deadlines to meet. Yes, I have work to do, but overall, it will be relaxing. I spent a few moments working on a project that I will be taking with me to Japan soon before I headed back out and shot some pool and relaxed at a Korean food joint that I like. As I shot, it felt good to finally have a lot of the weight of a school year off my shoulders, at least for the time being. While there is work to do, there's always some time to enjoy the opportunities provided in the day ahead. As I drove home, the fog rolled in and it almost felt like I was driving into a dream, yet strangely, the dream had already begun. It's winter break.

Thursday, December 20, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 354]:~ Moments You Can Never Replace

~:[CH7 - Day 354]:~ Moments You Can Never Replace
Sometimes you make a decision to be apart of something or attend something and with it comes a moment you cannot replace. If it is an outing with friends and family, an event such as a wedding or concert, or being apart of a team. At times, people take being apart of a team for granted and when they finally realize how big of a part that it is to their lives, the time has already passed. A lot of my seniors reminded me about that at our banquet and today was a moment where I saw just how special being apart of a team is and I hope they realize it to. Today was one of those moments you can never replace. As a below .500 team, we were matched up against the #4 team in the area who had a 12-1 record. We were expected to lose, but we kept it close and even went on a run that put us up by nine. They fought back and took the lead and it seemed as if we were doomed. We battled back and forth and down by one, Downey hit a shot to take the lead. It left us with one possession and one of our boys took the jumper, knocked it down and the rest, you can see captured in this moment. I can think of almost a hundred moments in my life that I've had where I could easily have not had. They were moments I was left breathless, where I smiled, where I laughed and where I felt love. No, it's not FOMO (fear of missing out), it's taking the opportunities presented to you and making the most of them. For these athletes, they will have to decide if they invest their time and energy into their team and have more moments such as today and for all of us, it's about putting ourselves out there and giving ourselves the most opportunities to make moments we can never replace. I think trying to hard to make those moments memorable is a common mistake, as you need to realize is that the same experience won't be as magical for you or everything you do will not be one of these moments, however, the more times you put yourself out there, the more chances you'll find yourself pegged with another irreplaceable moment. Aside from the fact that I got to catch up with an alumni I ran into or got to spend an incredible evening with my friends and my family, this very moment on the court could have been easily missed had I passed on this opportunity to attend (which I almost did). I smiled, I was in awe and today became another moment in my life that cannot be replaced. I hope that this holiday season and beyond, these types of moments are common for you, as they are not always hidden in high-priced seats or exotic locations, but rather, many of these moments can be found in your own backyard. Tomorrow's a new day, let's make that first step towards a life filled with moments like these as I'm sure you won't regret it. 

Wednesday, December 19, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 353]:~ Music to My Ears

~:[CH7 - Day 353]:~ Music to My Ears
Today was not at all a day to relax. Giving out a test during a short period, grading assignments, hosting our final dance performance for cross country, trying to get everything organized before break on top of fixing an oversight I made for our upcoming MUN conference, all led to a bountiful amount of stress that I wasn't quite prepared for. However, that is part of the daily life in the classroom and a part of those crazy days you just want to put on the shelf. Of course, the morning is what kept me moving through the day, as we enjoyed the music of the jazz band and choir, who also sang some wonderful parodies made by our wonderful principal who always makes this breakfast a great event. My friend asked me if I could give up what I do on a day-to-day if there was a bigger project with my name written on it and when I think about it more and more, the answer continues to be no. Why? In all the stress that a day presents and all the frustrations that a student may present, I see the challenges that I must tackle in my life, but also the opportunities to grow, both for myself and those around me. I may yell or be frustrated inside, I may not be able to do something because we are short on funds, or simply have a pile of work that is insurmountable, but that is the path I've chosen and I welcome it with open arms. Many in this profession get burnt out because there is so much time and commitment and often times, there isn't the support you need to get it all done. However, if you enter with the right attitude, it can help ease some of those issues. Tomorrow, I get to work with the basketball team at their game at the Staples Center, which gives me a bit of a reprieve from this chaos, but still, I am waiting to get back into the trenches as all these experiences, both good and bad, is what brings music to my ears.

Tuesday, December 18, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 352]:~ The Intro

~:[CH7 - Day 352]:~ The Intro
I don't like speaking in front of people, but for some reason, when I am announcing, I get taken away. I get into the role and just do it. I was happy to have been able to do my first introduction of the season at the basketball game before spending the rest of the night at TapEx for the staff potluck. Yes, I attended a staff potluck It was the end of a beautiful day filled with quality time with my colleagues at soup kitchen, dancing in the quad and just some chit chat here and there to make the day great. Lunch also provided us entertainment in the form of a premiere wit the theme of La La Land being introduced. As I sat down in TapEx, I felt amazing as I wasn't worried about any deadlines and ran into a few people I knew. I realized just how nice it feels to relax and do nothing, something I hope I can do more in the near future. For now, I'll accept the day as a introduction into what may be coming my way. Sometimes we get so busy that we forget that we could use a break every once in awhile to discover a day like this where you just shoot the breeze and enjoy the day without any worries whatsoever. Today was definitely a good fit for the theme, it was definitely a day in La La Land. 

Monday, December 17, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 351]:~ With Time to Spare

~:[CH7 - Day 351]:~ With Time to Spare
I rushed out after school because I knew that I had to write two tests and also do some cooking for the soup kitchen tomorrow, so I jetted out and headed to the market. After I ran into person after person, I finally got out of there and started prepping to cook. People rarely realize what actually goes into the saltado as the dish is mainly composed of chicken, onions, cilantro, tomatoes and french fries; however, the sauce has cabbage, red bell peppers, three types of peppers, cilantro, onions and garlic. Thus, the afternoon was spent chopping away, but somehow it was quite therapeutic. I took breaks as I did to focus on writing my test, I edited some photos and took care of some logistical planning for MUN. As I converted the saltado de pollo into a soup, I got more done and realized I finished more than what I had hoped for the night. I wondered if this is what I've been missing all these years. I normally don't get home until at least 7pm and so getting home at about 4pm was a dream and that extra three hours felt like an eternity. While I would get bored if I did that too long, it felt nice as I enjoy the evening cooking and getting work done without a load of stress on my shoulders. I chatted with friends and started getting things prepped for the holidays. I finished with time to spare and while I will be waiting on my soup through the night, it was nice to not have to stress too much as the holidays quickly approach. I am read, are you?

Sunday, December 16, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 350]:~ When Things Run a Foul

~:[CH7 - Day 350]:~ When Things Run a Foul
I landed on the floor as I kept sticking on the lane at the bowling alley. I picked up my spare but technically, I got a foul. That game was not that great, as I was too scared of falling. Sometimes, when things go a foul, we limit ourselves while trying to protect ourselves from harm. Often times doing this is exactly what we shouldn't be doing, as we keep ourselves from growing and allow a moment to scar us for the rest of our lives. Failure, heartache, and disappointment all can keep us from moving on, but it is something we must do sooner rather than later. It took a bit of time, but I eventually started to get back to normal and all ended up being good. We never really know where we are headed and what we have the potential to do, but what I can tell you is that when we limit ourselves, we limit our possibilities. While at times we must take the responsible conservative route, there are many times where we are fully capable if we just believe in ourselves, especially after our previous attempted went a foul. 

Saturday, December 15, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 349]:~ Hard Labor, Great Times

~:[CH7 - Day 349]:~ Hard Labor, Great Times
My body was so sore by day's end. It was about nine hours of moving, monitoring and cleaning as we ran our annual Stussy sale. There isn't much to worry about, but on the day of, there is a lot to do. The great thing is that at the end of the day, I got nothing but praise for the work this group did and I was also proud of how they did. It's not easy spending that much time doing all that work, but they stayed on top of it through the day and I was so proud. From labor to celebration, we held our annual captains dinner where the new trainees join our current and departing group in a changing of the guard. We will have a fairly young captains core next year with only one senior, but we also have a frosh/soph heavy team as well. As usual, it was a great dinner at one of my favorite places and helped me recover a bit from an insane week of work. With that, I now have some time to relax and enjoy as I have a fairly light week ahead before the craziness of the holidays. Sometimes we complain about all the hard work we have to do, but when all is said and done, celebrating and relaxing afterward becomes even more appreciated and for that we can appreciate both the hard work and the opportunity to enjoy it afterward! 

Friday, December 14, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 348]:~ In the Holiday Spirit

~:[CH7 - Day 348]:~ In the Holiday Spirit
I was lucky enough to visit the Disney Concert Hall again. I am so grateful for the opportunity I was given to visit this beautiful place and appreciative of the generosity to allow the local citizens to see a performance. It was the first time in awhile that I was able to sit back and enjoy something without having to worry about any deadlines. Yes, tomorrow I have to work, but at least I am working only needing to show up and make sure people are doing what they need to do. I always feel so relieved after banquet, as a weight is lifted off my shoulders and going out right away allowed me to go out and feel the holiday spirit blooming in my soul for the first time. I've locked myself inside for quite sometime now preparing for this and now it's time to enjoy the holiday season. I've got a lot of cleaning and preparing to do, but at least it will be enjoyable. As busy as this season may get, let's be sure to be grateful for all the we have, especially those loved ones who surround us. 

Thursday, December 13, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 347]:~ Saving a Sinking Ship

~:[CH7 - Day 347]:~ Saving a Sinking Ship
A few years ago, I almost stopped coaching. I looked towards the athletes to give more than just being apart of the program, rather to be the program. This group, as sophomores, made the push that kept me engaged and I became better because of it. I got a new crop of athletes that helped grow the program and the dedication level of the athletes grew with it. Talented or not, all I ask for is that athletes put their best foot forward and spend the time to improve. I ask that they give back to the program, rather than just reaping the benefits of it and I have been glad to see that happening as of late. In life, you'll come across situations where you're sitting on a sinking ship and you have to decide whether you try to fix it or if you abandon it altogether  This group was able to save that sinking ship. On banquet days (and weeks), I think I work harder than during any time in a given year. I am always so exhausted and beat up afterwards and just want to hibernate for a year or two. However, when all is said and done, I look back at the pictures and videos and think, this was all worth it. To see the athletes reminisce about their season and to appreciate all that they were able to share together makes it worth it, despite the number of hours I have to give up to do so. Of course, this year, that work became even more worth it, as this was the class that decide, "we should save this sinking ship." Whether I would have left at the end of that year, we will never  know, but what I do know is that in part, this group contributed to the continuation of something I hold so dear and tonight reemphasized that to me, as every banquet in the past has done. Tomorrow, I may be dying of exhaustion, but I'll still be smiling, as I know that there will be another day and I'll get to share it with my ohana.  For that, I am forever grateful. 

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 346]:~ Standing Out

~:[CH7 - Day 346]:~ Standing Out
As we prepare for the upcoming Stussy Sale, I have thought about different signs that I have used that stood out and demanded attention. In thinking about it, I ordered the brightest posters that I could find. However, I also realized that simply being bright may not be enough. We live in a world where we strive to stand out. We strive to our best in a field and ultimate find success. No matter what we are involved in, many times, we strive towards the top of that given field. In the process of doing so, sometimes we lose the reason why we started in the first place. As great as it is to top your field or to stand out, hopefully we can see that we must keep focus on why we are doing it all in the first place. In a society where we are so pressured to succeed, we must also remember to enjoy life, as we work hard and do all of these things more so for the life experience than to win, as the memories will outlast the trophies or awards we collect. As I wrap up preparation for the banquet, I will continue to remember the reason why I coach, not to win, but to give these athletes experiences they cannot get elsewhere and in the process, I know each of them will have the opportunity to stand out in their own way, not at the top, but together as one. 

Tuesday, December 11, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 345]:~ Stay Focused

~:[CH7 - Day 345]:~ Stay Focused
For my athletes, it was staying focused so that they could perform their first round of dances, for me, it was staying focused so I could complete my ten hour date with my computer. Yes, by night's end, I have spent over ten hours editing for our banquet. I had a few errands that kept me up later, but I stayed focused and worked through the night. By night's end, I had completed 2/3 of the video with a full night left. Obviously, there are certificates to sign and sort along with notes to write, but I think I am in pretty good shape and should be able to get things done as I finished the toughest of the sections of the video already. While I toned down the extras so that I could make sure that I finished, I still think that it is piecing together well, much like the dances that my athletes have been working on. As I smiled at the work that I create, earlier, I was smiling at the progress my athletes have made on their dances. Not many of them are dancers, but they keep impressing me and adding things into their performances. The rain kept them from a few practices, but ultimately, the all were able to complete their performance for the check up. I can't wait to see the final products next week! In any case, the next two days will be crazy, but at least I know that after those two days, things will slow down and I may just be able to breathe. For now, I must stay focused knowing that I can do this! 

Monday, December 10, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 344]:~ Grit and Grind

~:[CH7 - Day 344]:~ Grit and Grind
I know this feeling all too well. With some, it's deadlines and others it's finals, but for me, it's banquet. A few times a year, I face the challenge of prepping for the banquet with a list of things to do. From reservations to sign ups, awards to programs, it's a handful of work to do. I start the process about a month prior and still, when push comes to shove, I'm sitting here the week of, praying that everything gets finished. I once again am sitting here, looking at the insurmountable list of 1500 clips for Mammoth alone, I just want to throw my hands up and give up. Alas, I get to the grind and finish it out. It takes a bit of grit and grind, but it teaches you how to handle the rigors of life. I think if someone were to pat me on the back and say, it's okay, you can finish it next time, I would be tempted to let them let me just pass on the assignment, but what would I have learned. There have been failures in the process of banquet planning and I always forget something, but in the end, I've grown a lot and am a better person because of it. I hope that parents (and when I become a parent) allow their children to fail and learn from it. Obviously, there will be some teaching necessary, but hope that they don't give their children a paved path to travel down, as it will end up keeping them from learning to grind and from having the grit necessary to make it through those tumultuous times in their lives. The next few days, I'll be MIA as usual, but it's part of the process that has helped me grow and stay calm when these piles grow around me. In the end, the stress and work that gets put into the banquet are well worth it, but I'd be lying if I said I would be sad when it's all over because it will also be nice to have some time to rest and relax. Let's get it!

Sunday, December 9, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 343]:~ Face the World Ahead of You

~:[CH7 - Day 343]:~ Face the World Ahead of You
The world is going to try to bring you down, that's why you have to be ready to face the world that is ahead of you. As I stood in the middle of a snow-covered Shady Rest Park, I thought about how to get to where we want to go, we have to stand up for ourselves and be prepared for what's ahead. The road of life is a long one, so we do have to prepare ourselves well. Sundays tend to be the best and worst days of the week, as you can enjoy the day itself, but at the same time, you know that the next day is Monday, a day that many dread as we stumble to get on our feet. However, in our lives, if we prepare ourselves for what could be ahead, what's ahead shouldn't scare us at all. As I drove through undiscovered territory, I saw beauty I have never seen before as it made me realized that traveling down these unknown roads is not always as bad as they seem and in this case, can be awe-inspiring. If we listen to those who are trying to stop us, we miss out on opportunities. As you head into the week remember these tips to get your through your journey:

1. Be prepared for what's ahead and expect the unexpected!
2. Be smart, but don't be afraid of roads that require a bit of a challenge.
3. Keep and eye out for opportunities that surround you.
4. Enjoy the ride! Don't miss out on opportunities because you're so focused on the destination.
5. Don't be afraid to try new things.
6. Don't be afraid to change up your road map.
7. Travel with confidence, both in yourself and your plan.

As we travel ahead, let's arm ourselves with all the tools and skills we need to successfully accomplish what we aim for on the road ahead and let's all be ready to stand tall in front of the challenges that lay ahead. I always seem to want to stand behind the camera lens, but today I saw that every once in awhile that in order to find a successful journey that I must also see the world from another point of view. While today marks the end of the weekend, let's not be sad, as a week full of opportunities await us. 

Saturday, December 8, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 342]:~ The Right Traction

~:[CH7 - Day 342]:~ The Right Traction
These are my boys who took on the challenges of this year's National Junior Olympic race. They worked their way through the two qualifying rounds and made the trek up to Reno. It wasn't cheap by any means and attending meant that they had almost a full month more of training to do and for the alumni, they had to train period. In the end, they couldn't get their footing along the mud-soaked course and deal with the frigid temperatures too well (as you could see that even posing for a picture was a challenge, however, they battled and didn't give up. While we didn't have an All-American, we had a group who may not have won by stepping onto a podium, yet they won through their effort and these moments they created while on this trip. We ended the evening at a buffet and they went to a trampoline park and played laser tag, dodge ball and literally just jumped around and at some point after getting knocked out of dodgeball, I just laid there and saw the joy on their faces and smiled. They couldn't quite get the right footing on the course, but they certainly found the right traction in life. Sometimes when you win you lose and often when you "lose" you actually win. There can only be one champion in many cases, however, there are many that can win at this thing called life. No, it's not a millennial perspective, rather it's seeing that life encompasses more than the trophies and medals that line your mantle and walls. Today, I found out that our school lost a former teacher and coach who was nothing but amazing when I met him. While I never had him in class or as an athlete, I encountered him many times even after he retired. His smile, his genuine greetings, and his love for the things around him demonstrated that he had the right traction in life. It is in sadness that we mourn his death, but in celebration that we were able to travel this road along with him. I have no clue how many awards or championships he collected in his lifetime, but it matters not, as it was him, as a person that demonstrated that he truly won at life. I hope my athletes can see that. They battled these frigid and muddy conditions as I was brought back to laying down in the dodgeball trampoline area defeated after being knocked out, I couldn't help but smile, because once again, these athletes helped me find another victory in life. 

Friday, December 7, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 341]:~ The Right Detour

~:[CH7 - Day 341]:~ The Right Detour
In life, we often have a direction in which we are a headed and a destination where we want to be. There are so many times in life that we focus so much on that, that we lost our way and get lost in the process. As we drove from Rocklin to Reno, we had that destination and even a deadline, yet we still took some time for a quick detour and there was no doubt that it was the right decision. As we ventured out, we found over knee-deep snow pack that was untouched and gorgeous scenes of a wintry wonderland which was the start of a fabulous day to kick off our time in Reno. I've often been a very destination-drive person, yet I also began to figure out that sometimes it blinds you from the wonderful things that await you along the way. My hope is that you can keep an eye on the destination, but don't forget to look around at all that surrounds you, as sometimes a detour awaits you that is exactly what you need at the right moment. In love, in career, and in life, don't be so quick to get to where you're going, but rather take you time to discover all the doors that are available to you, as you may just find the one that you've been looking for all along. Today, I could have settled for a direct route, however, if I had, the greatest moment of the day would have been missed. Every once in awhile, the detour is just right. 

Thursday, December 6, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 340]:~ Under the Eye of the Storm

~:[CH7 - Day 340]:~ Under the Eye of the Storm
As I walked out of school trying to head out on our way to Reno, I looked up at the sky and saw it clearing. In a day where rain kept us inside and our power off for most of the morning, there was hope that good things were on the horizon. While I actually like the solitude and tranquility that came with this moment, I also realized that there are people around me that struggle through moments just like this. They battle the storm hoping that something good is on the horizon and to all those people I say, there is. As lonely as you may feel and as long as the storm may rage on, those blue skies are coming your way. As I drove out past Los Angeles and passed through the traffic, it was smooth sailing as we saw blue skies. We had moments where we passed back through the storm and even coming across a bit of snow through Tejon Pass, however, together we enjoy our time and made it out of the eye of the storm. I wanted to just go to sleep and find peace in the solitude that I enjoy so much, but we ended up enjoying the company of each other and playing cards into the night. I had work to do and also wanted to rest, but tonight, I was fine with enjoying the company of the team, enjoying this break from the storm. Here's to hoping that we all find our blue skies as we battle the storms of life. 

Wednesday, December 5, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 339]:~ It May Just Work Out

~:[CH7 - Day 339]:~ It May Just Work Out
It looked like it might rain and class would be canceled on a day where I would be busy from when I work up until I went to sleep. Yes, it's busy season. The time of year where I go antisocial and lock myself away for a few weeks aside from my commitments - banquet time. However when you face these days, you can go in with the attitude that your doomed to fail or be stressed or keep a positive eye towards your end goal. It's not a coincidence that when you carry a positive attitude that things will change for the better. People want to be around you even when you're stressed as they see it as motivation for themselves as well. I try to say to myself, it may just work out!" It's a given that we're going to face defeat on occasion, but with the right attitude, you're bound to face it less and at the end of the day, you'll go down with a better outlook on things. It's raining and I've gone non-stop for, well let's just say awhile, but hey, today it worked out and I attribute it to having the right mindset and surrounding myself with those who have the same. We're only doomed to fail if that's what we believe so instead, just believe that it may will work out.

Tuesday, December 4, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 338]:~ The Growing Pains

~:[CH7 - Day 338]:~ The Growing Pains
When I spend time with the youth, it makes me think of my opportunities to grow up and all the pains that came along with it. Let's face it, even as we get older, we still face the same pains of growth. However, it's part of the process. If I had a chance to transport back into the body of a five years old, I wouldn't, but if I did, I would say, just take life head on. You're going to make bad decisions, make mistakes, and fail. You won't always be able to stay in your lane, but that is part of life. You learn how to get back on track so that you can head down the highway and cruise on along. Life is painful, but that is the part that makes it fun and interesting. It's true, I would never go back and try to live life again, as I am comfortable where I am at, but if I did, at least I would know that the pains along the way were well worth it in the end. In our day and age, many of my students are coddled and protected, but in reality, being exposed to all that is out there has taught me so much more and I think in the end, I was ready for the world when I stepped into it. Sure, there are many realities I didn't have to live through since I lived a privileged life, regardless, I still took my bumps and bruises on my way to where I am today and for that, I am forever grateful. 

Monday, December 3, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 337]:~ Learning the Steps

~:[CH7 - Day 337]:~ Learning the Steps
I love to hear it when people say that they cannot dance. Sure, it's easier for me to say because I love to dance, but still, the movement of the body is something that you can easily allow yourself to learn. As I watched all fourteen of our groups learn their own routines, I witness how they began to transform as some groups really stepped it up and began to show that they had it in them to piece together something, even when they aren't quite "dancers." I think it's too easy for all of us to say that we can't before we even try as we want to avoid embarrassment and even worse, failure. Life is about putting yourself out there and seeing what you can learn to do and if you put the time and effort into it, you'll see that you will be able to do it. Sure, you may never be as good as those dance crew types, but does it really matter? It's about getting out there and learning the steps, whether you're dancing, playing a sport or instrument, studying or gaining a trade skill. It shouldn't just come easy to you, it should be something you work at to really show what you're capable of. My athletes are fully capable and you are fully capable and I hope that you realize that and go out and learn the steps to whatever you have a passion for. 

Sunday, December 2, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 336]:~ When Dreams Become Reality

~:[CH7 - Day 336]:~ When Dreams Become Reality
A little girl ran in and began spinning the light just as I was taking the photo. In a day full of so many wonderful things, this moment was one that captured my heart and made me think, one day those dreams will become a reality. As a child, you think of all the magical things that can happen in your lives and somewhere along the way, those dreams slowly fly away into the surrounding sky, disappearing without a trace. For some, those dreams quickly become a reality. However, for many, the hardships of life weigh them down and leave them gasping for air, simply trying to survive and forgetting what it means to dream. As I watched this little girl twirl the light and illuminate all that surrounded us, I thought, why do we lose sight of our dreams? The reality is, those dreams should become our reality. Obviously, our fantasy world that we may have dreamed as kids may never come to pass, but why can't we dream as adults and make those dreams become our reality. There are many who do this on a daily basis and live their dreams, but far too many of us have strayed to far from what we hoped our lives could become. Most of us have a life full of responsibilities and don't have much time in our lives, but maybe, just maybe, we can squeeze a few of those moments we have left in our days to dream up something for ourselves in hopes that one day they can become a reality.Tonight, I took the time out to do just that and hope that much like this child, my mind can wander so carefree and find those things that my inner self wants the most. On my list of the many deadlines I have coming up in the next month, I'll be sure to leave a line open so that I can take a moment to dream along the way and maybe, just maybe, that dream will become a reality.

Saturday, December 1, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 335]:~ Still Processing

~:[CH7 - Day 335]:~ Still Processing
Do you know that moment when you're sitting at the computer and click on something and you get the spinning ball of death or the loading bar for the web page takes forever? That is the state of my freshmen normally at this stage in the year as they are just getting into this whole MUN thing. However, this year, the freshmen seemed to speed up that processing a bit, as they did better than we had in the past. We had a lot of our delegates improve, a decent number receive awards and even had two best delegates in the process. While I know that they still have yet to reach their potential, I am still proud of their progress to this point and while many will have gone home disappointed, there really isn't anything to be disappointed about. We are often to hasty about getting what we want and sometimes what we have to understand for ourselves and those around us is that sometimes, it does take a little processing before we get to the long awaited finale. 

Friday, November 30, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 334]:~ A Wild Treecko

~:[CH7 - Day 334]:~ A Wild Treecko
On any given day, you never know what you're going to encounter and so you have to be ready for anything. Today, I spotted a wild treecko or so I thought. Today, I bounced around with experienced of all sorts from a stop off at TapEx to a quick pause at California Adventure, a Japanese dinner, a choir performance and of course another trip back to TapEx. Who knew that the day would be so filled with things on top of Pokemon, but you need to be prepared for days where you spot more things that you expected. The reality of it all is that sometimes you just can't be ready for it all, but at least with the right mindset, you can take on as many of these things as possible. Whether a wild treecko or an old friend, whatever you encounter in a day, make the most of it, as you never know when your opportunity to do so again will appear. 

Thursday, November 29, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 329]:~ The Rhythm of the Rain

~:[CH7 - Day 329]:~ The Rhythm of the Rain
The song once said, it never rains in Southern California. It's actually pretty accurate as it rains less than 1% of the year and Los Angeles collects about a foot of rain a year. However, when it does rain, I love it. No, I don't love the traffic and accidents that occur since Angelenos don't know how to drive in non-sunny weather or the challenges that come from going from car to home or whenever I need to go. I do, however, love the pitter patter and sometimes the thunderous downpour that ensues in a storm. It's rhythmic and consoling. Whether you are happy or sad, tired or energetic, it provides some kind of comfort to put you to sleep or stimulate  you even more. The weather broke just long enough for us to finish our first day of planning for our PE dance unit and also for a quick workout at practice, but as the day turned to night, I sat at home and was put to sleep by the rain that was like a classical concerto as if conducted by the father of Symphony, Joseph Haydn. I had a lot of work to do, but alas, I lost to the rhythm of the rain and got some much needed rest. It never really rains in Los Angeles and Southern California at that, but when it does, when many run for cover, I open my ears, my mind and my heart, and soak it all in, as my heart dances to the rhythm composed by Mother Nature herself. 







Wednesday, November 28, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 328]:~ It's Just Me

~:[CH7 - Day 328]:~ It's Just Me
For some reason, when I saw this photo, I thought of myself. Someone walking down a road alone, headed towards an uphill climb. I seem to head towards challenges that at times seem insurmountable and normally, I survive. Sometimes, it's logging thousands of video clips to make a video, reading through hundreds of pages of writing, or simply taking on a trek in a short amount of time that no one thought was possible. There are few that will travel down this road, but even if I have to travel it alone, I'm going to head straight down the road, without looking back. I think in life we need to do just that. We need to take in what we hear around us, but ultimately, allow ourselves to be ourselves. We need to be able to chose the roads we head down, even if it seems like they will be the most difficult. As I wandered up this very road, I was rewarded at the top with a view of the entrance to Valletta. Just as in life, when you're able to reach the top, there is something often awaiting you. Sometimes, it can be disappointing and not worth the effort, while in many cases, you're left with something so awe-inspiring that you're ready to do it all over again. There will be days where I don't take the challenging road, but after all the obstacles I've overcome and all the adventures I've survived, that insurmountable hill is but another climb to something greater that awaits me. One day I will slow down and that hill will turn into a mountain, but for now, I'll walk down this road, ready for whatever comes my way. It's just me and I'm just fine with that. 

Tuesday, November 27, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 327]:~ Qui Vivra Verra

~:[CH7 - Day 327]:~ Qui Vivra Verra
We really don't know how something will turn out in the end. Today had a lot of misery in it, but with it comes the opportunity to make some good of the day. You make the choices you make in life and there is no way you can really predict how things will turnout. You may have an idea of where things are headed, but in reality, qui vivra verra. The only way we can see how things will turn out is by living and in my eyes, the only way you can live is by putting yourself out there to see what life has to offer. As I said goodbye to the beautiful town of Valetta, I was once again blessed with a comfortable flight as I landed in Paris. Sadly, the clouds that loomed in Paris were a sign of trouble ahead. A cloudy sky kept me from getting the video I wanted, then traffic limited m time in the city on my layover. Just when my doubts took over, the skies cleared and the photo summed up my trip, adventuring in these cities finding these little creatures. It was ironic that Mr. Mime would show up as I arrived to the Eiffel Tower. With limited time, I got my shots and headed back to the airport where disaster loomed again. A broken escape slide on the plane meant that some passengers would be disembarked from the plane. As I passed by groups of people, it was sad to see that they were "chosen" to stay back as we flew away. Who knows what that led to in their lives, whether it meant that they missed a meeting or gained another opportunity in Paris, but regardless, life is about living. You experience the good and the bad and you go with the flow. The delay could have easily dampened the mood, but I saw it as a gratefulness to have flown that day, as I ventured back, flew through customs and hung out with a friend, topping off the evening on a quick turnaround trip. As many problems that today ended with, as I look back, I was glad that I did what I did. I may never fly another budget airline again after this experience, but regardless, the unpredictability is part of the process. You make decisions, you make mistakes, you learn, but most importantly, you live. Qui vivra verra! Don't let the unpredictable future dictate your present, as you future is determined by how you live today.

Monday, November 26, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 326]:~ Those We Pass On By

~:[CH7 - Day 326]:~ Those We Pass On By
I went to Sliema and St. Julian to wander and see the coastlines. It rained on me on a day I left my coat and didn't take an umbrella. It must have been a sign telling me that I should be exploring Valletta more before I leave. I am glad I did. The beauty of this city is amazing and while there is limited space, there is so much to look at. It made it a little difficult when my Internet went out, but then forced me to just explore and wandering not caring where I ended up. I ended up some place back where I started, but in the end, it was a whole lot better. As I walked through the streets that I passed by the day before. I thought about all the people that I pass by along the way. Have I crossed paths with them before? Where are they from? Are they doing something similar to me? It takes a lot for me to open up and talk to someone, so I never asked, but then again, my wondering may have stopped had I done so. Even when I heard Japanese, I was inclined to ask what part of Japan they were from, but I just left it at that, as a question in my mind. I wondered if I'd ever run into anyone of these people again. It turns out that someone on my ferry in the morning, crossed paths with me later that evening. How many more people did I not noticed. Regardless, the world is a place full of wonder, mystery and beauty. No matter how you do it, where you go and who you are with, soak it all in, knowing that the adventure is not where you are, but how you make the most of the moments you have. Tomorrow I will stop living in this UNESCO Heritage Site and one of the most historic places in the world, there will be a whole different group of people passing me by, but the experience I gain from my day, that will be all up to me. Just like people who pass you by on a daily basis, opportunities to make your day great pass by as well. It's your choice to accept those opportunities or to continue walking by. 

Sunday, November 25, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 325]:~ Walking Through History

~:[CH7 - Day 325]:~ Walking Through History
It's a small little island, but it's full of history. As I ventured to the city of Valletta, I wasn't really sure what to expect, but I was blown away by the history that was captured within the small area. There is a reason why it's considered a UNESCO World Heritage site and I needed a lot more time to explore it all. Regardless, I did what I could do in my time here and even snuck into the cathedral in between services and snagged my picture. The food was delicious and there was a lot of diversity experienced while I was here, as its location between Africa and Europe created quite a mix, as various languages were heard throughout the streets, obviously some from the tourists, but even on the local buses it could be heard. Regardless, I have another day to explore and while some of the day is dedicated to work, I will continue my journey through history, taking in what I can and hoping for another opportunity to explore this place again.

Saturday, November 24, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 324]:~ No Pegar Ojo

~:[CH7 - Day 324]:~ No Pegar Ojo
The first thing I saw when I arrived was this gorgeous building, which gave me a sign that this short stopover would be a feast for the eyes. Instead of doing anything big, I decided to just wander around and enjoy the beauty of the architecture and grab some food of course I was pretty exhausted upon arrival, but enjoyed every bit of it. The great thing is that all the Spanish I learned in high school paid off as I could understand a lot and even speak a little. It wasn't perfect, but not too shabby. I definitely need to come back for a longer time. I didn't get to sleep in a bed last night and will only take a nap tonight, but this beauty is worth not sleeping a wink! (No Pegar Ojo) Buenas noches!

Friday, November 23, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 323]:~ From Time to Time

~:[CH7 - Day 323]:~ From Time to Time
One of the things that keeps me the busiest is meeting up with alumni. It's always great to catch up every once in awhile and see them from time to time. I always feel bad because often I am not around to meet, but when I have the time, it is nice to get together and catch up. I was home for a bit before heading out, so I was able to grab lunch before I headed off. While it wasn't a long lunch, it was definitely worthwhile and allowed for some time to reflect on all the good times. There is a lot to enjoy in the world around us, but there is just as much to enjoy right here under our own noses. While I enjoy getting away, from time to time, I always have to make time for those who are right here at home. 

Thursday, November 22, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 322]:~ We are Family

~:[CH7 - Day 322]:~ We are Family
One of the things that I love most is how close our family is. While I don't see them as much as I want to (it's always my fault), we've had so much history together that we always seem to flow. It also helps that we all live pretty close to each other as well. With the holidays around, it mean time for good food, rest and relaxation and of course family. After running the Turkey Trot early this morning, I got a little too much rest while I was at the family dinner. Regardless, it was great to see everyone and those who are the foundation to all other things in our lives. My goals for the next year are to make a better effort to spend time with my family and I only hope that I force myself to do so. On this Thanksgiving Day, there are so many things to be thankful for, but family is at the top of that list. Thank you to all those who have made life amazing for me and I only hope that your holiday is filled with joy, love and happiness. 

Wednesday, November 21, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 321]:~ A Closer Look

~:[CH7 - Day 321]:~ A Closer Look
There's a lot that can go wrong in a day, a week, a year, or in our lives. We can drown ourselves in all that is wrong or look a bit closer to see what we failed to see the first time around. With all the struggles we face over the course of a lifetime, sometimes, we look back and realize the good that came out of bad situations or the mistakes we made along the way. In either case, we cannot go back and change things and thus, we must learn from the decisions we made and move on. Sometimes those decisions were made int he best interest of those around us (or so we thought) and sometimes, our bad decisions were ones of our own selfish nature. Whatever the case may be, we must look forward after learning from the past. As we head into the holiday season, look not at what went wrong and what is missing from our lives and focus on what we have. The past may revisit you and give you another opportunity to fix something that you broke or a new opportunity may come your way, but that will only happen when you move forward. This year has been a busy one with its ups and downs, but regardless, the only thing I know is that I must take this next step forward. I am appreciative of all I have and as I move forward, I will continue to pick out the good in all my days so that I may keep progressing, rather than holing myself back. The wounds of the past will be patched up and eventually healed and while the scars remain, so do the lessons that will help in avoiding those same mistakes again. Take a look at your past, but make sure that your strides head into the future.

Tuesday, November 20, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 320]:~ Taking In the Moment

~:[CH7 - Day 320]:~ Taking In the Moment
We were told that there were rumors that this course may not be around forever. It would be sad, as it has become a tradition for my dad and I to play at this course. It's a reminder that just like in life, you cannot take your opportunities for granted. While I've always wanted my mom to come along as well, I've always appreciated the opportunity to spend a few days with my dad. It's nice to getaway and since I am not home often, it's great to spend time with each other so we can create these cherished moments that I will remember for the rest of my life. We are often too busy running around to realize the things that are part of our everyday. We don't even imagine that one day that rock that's been stabilizing you for so long can one day be gone. While you'll eventually learn to stand on your own two feet again, that rock will never be physically there forever. Take in the moments you have and rather than complaining what it isn't, appreciate exactly what it is. Whether we are in Vegas or sitting on the couch in front of the TV, these are the moments I'll appreciate and take in, knowing that they won't be forever. Tomorrow is not a given so let's make the most of today by taking in every moment we can. 

Monday, November 19, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 319]:~ Sometimes It's Worth the Wait

~:[CH7 - Day 319]:~ Sometimes It's Worth the Wait
After we arrived, we headed strait to the Lotus of Siam. The health inspectors were there so the production from the kitchen was quite slow but boy was it delicious. However, while waiting for Top Golf, we waited for over two hours despite the one hour quote time and ended up scratching our name off the waiting list. I guess that's just how it goes in life. You need to decide what is worth the wait and what is not. Sometimes, you are rewarded for waiting and sometimes you're not. In the second case, I had an inkling early on that it wasn't going to work out, but I didn't listen to myself and ended up wasting an hour. In our own lives that decision will never be clearcut, but you just need to trust your instincts and go with it. Despite the disappointments, the rest of the night went amazing capped off by the amazing Le Reve and some quality time with JJ and my dad. Looking back on the day, would it had better had I not wasted those two hours at Top Golf, possibly; however, the reality is that we'll never know and why waste any more time thinking about the past rather than enjoying those opportunities awaiting me. 

Sunday, November 18, 2018

~:[CH7 - Day 318]:~ Not Just By Chance

~:[CH7 - Day 318]:~ Not Just By Chance
Often times people think that things happen because of luck or chance. Sure, it does require good timing and things to fall into place, but the reality is that in many cases, people discount the work that is put in to find success. I think when you find that thing you're passionate about though, you put the time and effort into it and you force the hand of this world to let you find yourself on the road to success. As I stood with nearly thousands of MyDays, you could tell that their hard work was paying off as I was impressed by how loyal of a following they had with some waiting 1/2 a day to get a good spot at the concert, traveling from quite the distance or simply knowing all the chants and songs. The energy of the crowd was great, but what was even greater was the performance quality they had, which was also a testament to the work that they have put in. From the backgrounds to the transitions and the way everything was laid out, they put on a performance that all of these MyDays will remember for a long while. I left on a flight from Las Vegas only to have to drive back tomorrow, but after arriving home and reflecting on this evening, I was so happy that I decided to do what I did. As I think about the goals that students have, it's stories such as Jae's that prove that you can take something you love and make it into something that brings you success. I already knew that he had the talent, but I love seeing how he not only uses his talent to entertain, but also loves doing in the process. If you haven't heard a Day6 track, watched a Day6 video or caught a Day6 concert, you're definitely missing out a genre of music that can appeal to so many, as the stray from what we think of when we think of this "Kpop" culture. The diverse crowd re-emphasized that even more. As the energy of the crowd flowed through me tonight, I kept smiling knowing the joy that they brought to all those around me, but also because I realized how this success was not simply by chance. If you can dream it, make a plan, work tirelessly even when you can barely keep your eyes open, and proceed forward doing the thing you love and not just doing it, but doing it well. In the case of Day6 and Jae, it was extremely well and more.